Wrote mum and dad a letter today to explain my point of view to them about me having full responsibility for my food intake and things like that. I think a letter was the best way of talking to them as it wasn't confrontational, and they would be able to look back on what i said to them as a point of reference and how to question me about things in the right way.
I explained how i don't like them confronting me about things and interferring with my food as it's my responsibility and i have to learn how to live with this and maintain my my life as best i can. I basically said it was going to be tough for me and i might find it hard, but i have to do this, i have no choice really as i don't want to miss anytime off college because of it, especially as i'm starting a fresh place, with fresh faces. I need to be able to cope and live life as best as i can, whilst maintaing some of my 'devil inside me' as i'm not willing to let it all go uet.
I was worried about the feedback that i would get, but mum and dad were both really good actually and took on board what i was saying. Whether they'll be able to put it into practice is a different matter, but i really hope they will.
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